How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 00:20

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Does not procrastinate.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Ask yourself:
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Is there a correlation between being a medium and mental health?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Walking more may lower your risk for chronic low back pain by 23%, study suggests - KSL.com
That's it for today.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Can you summarize season 1 of "The Acolyte"?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Can you share something that captivates you, whether it's an idea, a discovery, or an invention?
Procrastinates a lot.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Do not set goals—set systems.
How do you say "have fun" in French?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Making more friends is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What I need from you?
Can I fix a fridge leak myself, or should I call a pro?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Why do people procrastinate and how can they stop?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How is bestiality wrong, but killing animals for sport or trophies is considered okay?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.